Ever wonder what half the terms and acronyms mean? We've compiled a list of the common and some non so common Swingers Lifestyle termonology. Swingers Definitions Ever wonder what half the terms and acronyms mean? You may see Friendly posted on Swingers Profiles which would mean they are ok with people that smoke marijuana. Bareback Refers to sex without a condom. Bi Curious Is a hotly debated term.
Sharing personal information brings people closer together. Verified by Psychology Today. The Swinging Paradigm. A friend, familiar with my research on swinging asked me that question as we sat by the pool and sipped on a cold beer. The idea that swinging is a never-ending orgy of sweaty bodies is alive and well in our society. Moreover, the idea that swinging is part of a deviant, liberal plot devised to corrupt the morals of the country and bring civilization to perdition is far too often endorsed by the popular media. Of course, the good doctor had a therapeutic fool-proof solution: to put a stop to this deviant behavior and save the sanctity of the marriage bed, it was necessary for these misguided people to put a complete stop to this dysfunctional behavior.
These are the kinds of questions that Jackie and I get on OpenLove We see many of them at swingers gatherings, hotel takeovers, cruise ship takeovers and resorts. You will find most of the couples are 30 to 50, but we see more and more older people attending parties. Just like I would advise any other couple, just be yourself, introduce yourselves to others and see where it takes you maybe all the way to the playrooms. They have shared that as they have gotten older, they have changed what they expect to happen when they come to the club.
This is all part of the joy you may experience in learning and deepening your relationship through swinging. If you want to jump to the cons, click here. This is my favorite pro because it brings the topic of sex off the shelf and pushes it to the front of the line.